Valentine’s Day… but why though?

So here it comes again, that dreaded (or highly anticipated) day of the year, Valentine’s Day. A lot of us as men feel pressured by Valentine’s Day. We don’t like being expected to do something romantic for the wife or girlfriend(s) on an arbitrary date on the calendar. Some of my male friends flinch whenContinue reading “Valentine’s Day… but why though?”

Beauty of the Backshot

Sexual intercourse is certainly one of the best parts of human life. It’s even better when the people involved are open-minded and committed to giving pleasure rather than selfishly focusing on “gettn theirs”. Anyhow, I’m not focusing on sex in general today, I’m talking about the beauty of the Backshot, Backaz, Doggy Style or whicheverContinue reading “Beauty of the Backshot”

Secrets: to keep or not to keep

It is a widely-held belief/assumption that happiness in a marriage/relationship depends a lot on being completely open to one’s spouse through full disclosure. We are taught that clear communication is the best policy. Books like Fifty Shades of Grey strongly suggest that sharing our deepest sexual fantasies will improve intimacy. Others say secrets will ultimatelyContinue reading “Secrets: to keep or not to keep”

Matey by choice – women chasing forbidden fruit

Life is filled with duality – good v evil, left wing v right wing and matey v wifey among others; so let’s talk about this wifey v matey matter, focusing on the matey. For the purpose of this blog let’s focus particularly on the mateys who weren’t tricked into the relationship with the man. Instead I wantContinue reading “Matey by choice – women chasing forbidden fruit”

Bun and the married woman

I watched a programme on CNN recently which noted some research carried out by relationship experts in the United States about rates of infidelity (bun) among married couples. It showed infidelity ranging from 30-60 percent of women compared to 50-70 percent of men. The researchers also noted that the gap is closing. Sadly, I don’tContinue reading “Bun and the married woman”

Self confidence – is it what women want?

The question of what women want has been with us since God (if you’re religiously inclined) created women. I doubt even God could tell us what women want, and no I’m not being blasphemous. Don’t you think he would have revealed it to some ‘holy man’ by now? … Moving on I’ve observed and interacted withContinue reading “Self confidence – is it what women want?”

We just had sex, now what?

We just had sex, now what? That’s a question which always pops up the first time you have sex with someone new. Men and women tend to answer this question differently, but since I’m a man this blog shall be testosterone-driven. Now the next thing to consider when answering this question is if it’s aContinue reading “We just had sex, now what?”